Dear cle, I am sorry to hear about your situation. Your sit. is the same as mine, I done wrong and also fighting very hard now to salvage my M but what we can do now is to be patient and not exert more pressure and stress to our H.

We have to constantly assured our H that we realise how sorry and wrong we are but yet not pushing them as we are the one that messed up.

Now most important for us is to reflex and identify what went wrong in the M and learn from our mistakes and not commit the same mistakes again...know is easier said then done to be strong and hang in there but you really can get good advice from here and also emotional support.

Take care and be good to yourself