This sex thing is the bugs! My father used to wonder why the Creator invented sex anyway; it is such an impossible way of bringing new life to the planet.
Anyway, New Idea (trumpets, please): Maybe your H would do well in a men's group. I went to one for about six months. That's where I found out about low testosterone. Also, one of the guys there said he was helped by a shrink who specialized in sexual probs.
Guys sitting around talking HONESTLY with other guys can be a big help.