Torn Asunder by Dave Carder I found it on www.FamilyLife.com but you can find it on amazon.com also
This is an excellent read for dealing with affairs and trying to put your marriage back together. This book is decidedly from a Christian perspective, but helpful for anyone who finds themselves in a leaky boat like mine.
Lots of information about the reasons an affair occurs. What components are necessary for an affair. Also talks about the different types of affairs. Compelling reading. I highly recommend it.
