Hi GH and all, One of the first books that I read, which was very helpful to me, was:
When a Mate Wants Out, by Jim and Sally Conway
This book is written from a Christian perspective, so some readers might not like that. However, I found the focus on what there was for me to do, and in particular, the spiritual/inner work, to be powerful and helpful. The book is easy to read, and I have referred to it again and again. Particularly when I am feeling angry, it is a good remedy.
PositivelyListening ************************************** When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller
