Hope you don't mind my jumping in here.

I am separated from my W, but I hope to get back together with her, and let me say that I am REALLY worried about intimacy after we are together again.

I intend to get a testorerone test the next time I have a checkup and get the shots (if I need them) after my W and I are together again.

Also, I intend to swallow Viagra like candy. I was cautious about it while we were together (possibly leading to W's affair), so W said it really didn't do much good.

And, I will wean myself off of Zoloft (which has depressed my libido). Right now I don't need any libido, so the Zoloft is actually doing me good on two fronts -- the other one being the more-or-less mellow feeling I have.

You can read some more about this in my thread at http://www.divorcebusting.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=9;t=000830 .

Thanks for listening. Hope I have been of some help.

Mr. Ziff