GH, Thanks, our MC recommended "controlled seperation" within the first 30 minutes of our first visit, I couldn't stop it then, when we went to MC , I never thought there was an A, but MC later said he knew by her actions as soon as she started to speak. There are so many "IF ONLYS" as I call them, that run through your head and beat you up at night when you are by yourself and she is in arms of OM. IF ONLY she told me she wasn't happy, IF ONLY I saw the warning signs, IF ONLYS can go on forever. The key is that you can't change the past, you can only control yourself, improve yourself and realize your actions that brought your family to this point, take care of your kids, be a role model for your kids, and pray like you have never prayed before in your life.
