My W met (I think) OM in November, bombs fell on December 30th, affair lasted another 4 months, then ended (99% sure). W lived at home the whole time. It's been about 1 1/2 months since OM left the picture and we're still very much a work-in-progress even to get to the reconciling stage.
W says she is committed to our marriage, but no $ex yet and no other intimacy to speak of.
I have GREAT hopes that we will someday be a success story but the long journey still continues for me.