But seriously...

Does he know about acting as-if? He really needs a lesson.

It works in so many places. It helped me out of my depression. It helped me with my R problems.

It even works on sex:

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Originally posted by Michele June 06, 2002 08:48 PM on What do I do? I have no sex drive.:

…Furthermore, you need to know something else about sexual desire. research now tells us that if you're sitting around waiting to that BIG SIGN that you're really lusting for your husband before you have sex, you might wait a lifetime. For many, many people, sexual desire doesn't happen that way. Instead, if they're willing to become sexual even if they're not feeling particularly lusty, the sexual stimulation then turns them on and they DESIRE to continue. I can't tell you how many people have told me that they weren't interested in sex, but once they got started, they actually enjoyed themselves. Desire is now believed to FOLLOW stimulation rather than precede it.
I agree that you can't help him to change his mind. Unless you can educate him. D'ya think he'd be open to that?

Andy

Andy