Watching the moon phases every night. I'm not going to get caught by the full of the moon this month. I made a promise w our Daughter. I told her that fr here on out everytime I see the full of the moon I will think of her; she will think of me when she sees it. I told her that I needed an overlay and she asked me no questions.
Matilda. These men.
Yours feels remorse and guilt and winds up feeling self-loathing.
Mine doesn't regret his actions and winds up feeling self-loathing.
Michele posted something about desire. Actions cause desire or something like that.
I have a little goal that H will one fine day approach me and signal that he wants to be intimate.
For now, I signal desire so that H will know that I want him; maybe nothing will happen but often we get busy.
We forget for a little while. We weave a little magic. We aren't going near the broken parts of our marriage these days.
I think it might help your H some if he were to think about personal integrity. He lost that w the affair. When he came clean w you he got that back (right?). When he feels self-loathing prehaps you could suggest that he do a personal integrity check.
Son wants puter for game. Sigh. Gotta go!
Your H needs overlays of his bad memories. Our C told Sage that he should overlay scenes fr work w new memories. H is drawing up floor plan to rearrange the office. LOL.
