I read recently where this woman said that although she and her H rebuilt their M into something stronger and more loving that it once was, it took her about 10 for her to deal w her personal pain as a bs.
My take on this is that you and your H have that crucial piece of mutual love.
It will take you time to heal. It will lessen and fade.
If you chose to end the marriage because of the intensity of your current pain then your're still gonna hurt for a long long time. Long time.
Plus you'd have to kill off the love you have for this man. And deal w the regret of letting it go.
Matilda, I hurt for you. Please hold on. Please focus on the sweet.
