Ok...I just read you initial history....I can tell you that those game sights are nothing more then legal meat markets for a lot of people...
My husband found his EA there....years go by he gets stressed and goes back to the game rooms...has another EA and this time it leads to a PA....
And yes, he also got involved with pornography too...
You have some very valid concerns here because if it doesn't stop....it will come to a head and explode..
You are the same age group as I....I too was actively participating in the bedroom...like they say a mom in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom....the only difference between your story and mine is my H always pleased me...he was always the most awesome lover...and when he had his affair I was so jealous that he shared that with another...it was twisted thinking on my part but I knew I had something special and now it had been taken from me..
I will try and catch up to your sitch later...it is late now and I have to sleep...
