That your C would consider your hopes and dreams for the future of your M a fantasy interested me. When I look at what this could mean, I see the fact that you are the only one in the M now, therefore, the projection of intent into the future is yours alone. In fact, any attempt at looking into the future is fantasy - no matter how grounded it may be. Perhaps the C is trying to get you to recognize it as such, and not live as if it were - because your expectations might be leading you down an unhealthy path. The only thing you can really do is be open right now, and plan to be in the future, to a new relationship with the same person, without preconcieved ideas about what the R will look like. I think this is a healthy perspective. We can't look into the future of our M any more than WASs can look into the future of their FANTASY relationships. I know this is not exactly a parallel, but I think you know what I mean here.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
