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Ok, that all said, I will ask you this question to follow up on what you said to C and she to you; ARE you facing the truth or are you in denial? Is the fantasy she thinks you have that somehow you can save your marriage, or does she think you are in complete denial about the danger your marriage is in?

IF it is denial, then fine, she has a right to challenge you. IF it is simply that you believe there is hope, then how dare she take that from you




GH I honestly do not know if I am choosing not to face the truth at this moment or if I am in denial.

I can tell you that I am totally 200% committed to my marriage and nothing a counselor or anyone says could change that for me. But I do want to learn to deal with issues that need to be dealt with in order to be healthy.


Me 54
DS19 and DS17
Married 06/1989
Divorced 01/2011