Quote: but I realize now that I am somewhat addicted to monitoring him.
Hi NNP. Haven't yet read your previous threads, but this line hit home! I am like you and "honestly stumble across the knowledge" in the beginning, but then snoop to find more. I always hoped I would find H was telling the truth (like taking ow out of list of phone contacts and computer buddies), but then something else would pop up that would make me question him. We actually can communicate pretty well and I feel H will usually answer a direct question... except it is difficult to ask him questions about things that I found out in a devious way. Does that make sense? So for your sanity, try not to snoop! Once you accomplish that let me know so I can stop, too!
