I may be thinking a tiny bit clearer today. The counseling really threw me for a loop. I guess the reality is that I know in my heart that marriage is a commitment and not something to throw away.

I will go again next week and see if this counselor is going to be a good fit for me. If not I will call EAP and ask for another referral. Do you think two visits is enough time to decide about a counselor?


Me 54
DS19 and DS17
Married 06/1989
Divorced 01/2011