Quote: I do not even know where to begin... I guess I will just sit down and say "my life is a disaster and I would like you to fix it".
That about sums it up, right? Seriously, I would make sure you try, if possible, to have a few "issues" in mind. I made sure also to let my C know right away that divorce was not something I was interested in, at least for the time being and that I wanted to work on "me" issues for awhile before really addressing my relationship problems. This is in keeping with DB IMHO, because I needed to work on me first, THEN whatever other issues plagued my relationship. Hope this helps and good luck. Try to be open and honest and if they are a good C, they should be able to help you.