I've made a decision...

[NNP1965]

StrongNSassy, you really gave me a lot of food for thought this weekend. thank you.

I believe you may be right that he could be depressed and certainly stressed. One funny thing is though that he thinks "stress" is not a real thing. Problem is he would never talk to a Dr about anything and would never seek counseling and quite honestly will be very upset if he finds out that I am.

I do have the book Men are From Mars, Women from Venus. I assume that is the one you mean. Honestly I have never read the whole book. I will have two hours each afternoon this week that I can read uninterupted, so that will be what I'll be reading.

Thank you for the suggestions.