NO APOLOGY NECESSARY!! YOU ARE NOT A DRAG!! Hey,you have every right to feel the way you do!! Look what has happened to you!! On top of all that A crap you have had a stressful time with the graduation,family and everything so it is understandable that you are "down" right now!! You shouldn't have had to deal with memories of the A on top of everything else going on in your life at that time and you probably would have bee ok if your H hadn't screwed up!! What you need is "MATILDA DAY"!! You need to go somewhere by yourself,do whatever you feel like doing,buy tourself something you've been wanting,have some fun!! I would have confronted my H about the slip up too! Hey,they are the ones who brought on all this misery so they need to answer for it!! Please take care of yourself..I am concerned about you!! I know you have been very strong and you are trying really hard to keep your marriage together but it is very hard and a lot of work. You can't do it alone and you need to remind your H that he has to try harder!! Since I can't be there in person for you here's some hugs via the computer to help you through.((((MATILDA))))!!!!!Hope to hear from you later...HANG IN THERE!!!!!! YOUR FRIEND, pfroglady
