i thought about gift cards, but i'll wait a little while longer, if it continues them i'll have too. i just don't want it to look like a control issue. because its not.
she acually called me last night, i have had the worst weekend ever, spent it in the ER at the local hospital, not for me but for a very close friend which had a horriable accident. ( he will be ok in a few months ). anyway she calls me: w: i know you have had a very bad few days, but i'm going to make them worse. Me: what are you talking about. ( how can you make it worse is going through my mind ) w: well the kids are at my moms and at my uncles home, i'm on my way to the airport, i'm leaving for 10 days, only my mom knows were i'll be, the kids don't know i'm leaving. me: i see, you and OM are taking a trip w: yes, i don't know what i want right now,or how i feel, and i can't back out of the trip, i also desearve a vacation anyway from everyone. me: speechless , ok bye and we hang up
i did not ask her for any info on were she is going, nor did i ask her to not go, i don't even know why she even bothered to call and tell me???? she should have just gone,i feel that she probably felt like she had to tell me. for what reason i don't know. and for the comment ( i don't know what i want or how i feel ) bullsh**, don't tell me that, if i were going on a 10 day trip, i'd know exactly what i was doing and wanted. all it did was get me upset, i wish she never called to tell me. i would have rather not known.
