Hey Bro, I'm still here too. I'm sorry to see another family torn but I know you will do all you can to give your sons a good home and be a great example of a true man.
Just remember STBXW will always be in your life for a long time as a co-parent. It's good that you two can talk and be cordial. I'm still working through resentment that I may never fully want to get over.
Take care and keep us posted. I won't speak for fearless but will say that things are going well. When the time is right your will find there is someone wonderful out there for you.
I am the man who is loving my kids and will keep them from continuing this cycle of destruction.
