I am so sorry. I think you are doing the right thing for yourself. You've made it clear to your W that you believe the marriage could work. So now you can concentrate on being strong and taking care of yourself and your sons. Your W still could change her mind but that's up to her and as we've learned we cannot force our spouses to act the way we want them to!!
Good Luck!!!!
Fearless
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
