F4W,
That’s okay. I figured either you thought my advice sucked OR you just forgot me. Either was okay because I’m not too sensitive about stuff like that However I do appreciate you taking the time to add me

I think your counselor has some good ideas. I would be encouraged that you gave your wife an opening to call things over in front of the counselor (safe place in case she feels you will be too emotional) and she couldn’t do it. And if your wife is willing to go the IC route, I think there is some real hope!! Now you can back off and truly work on F4W. Are you still running, golfing, GALing??

You need to work on yourself and be strong because I think she will be going through some rough times in IC and if (when?) she is ready and willing to be vulnerable, you’ll need to be her rock!

Take care




But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus