I don't know that I could do C with my W right now. I guess W agreeing to go to C is a good thing - although your first session ended in fireworks!
It is hard to separate out what our Ws are going through. Your W has pent up anger - again - you are (and have to be) the target of this anger. Believe me - I have come to know this.
Quote: So I have agreed to not talk to my wife about anything but the kids. It seems as if the path is set, I hope there is a miracle in the future.
I learned this too. My W keeps ambushing me about D papers - really throws me off my game. I keep my communication with her to the children.
I know how you feel. I hope there are miracles in store for all of us. I will pray for you my friend! Hopefully your future C sessions will improve and you can get your M on a path to recovery.
