Once again F4W - I am feeling exactly the same as you. My W is preparing to file and since I cannot work on my M - W sees D as the only option - this will be a financial battle. I suspect she will occuse me of trying to screw her financially because I know she has absolutely no clue how any of this works.
Hang in there. Your W wants only what she wants now. It is unfortunate - but it is reality. I too hope that time heals all wounds. I guess we have to keep the faith and hope for the best. In the mean time, we have to protect ourselves as well.
