That is what I am going to do. Without going into much detail right now, I still think she checks here to see a stance or opinion, her first propsal I did not think all the way through and now that I have I informed her my tenetative settlement was no recinded. I have since countered with a proposal that places us near 50/50 (52 % for her and 48% for me) in regards to the kids. This of course may have an impact on the CS bit to me that issue is not as important as being a father "in my" kids lives not just a weekend dad.
She was PO'd and went on a rampage. But for me this is business, not emotional. If I did not seperate the emotional part of me, I would be dead in the water. As a business deal, I need to feel comfortable with the settlement.
It is hard, to see her cry and hear the things she says, bit these are MY kids also, and they need a dad also. This is taking it's toll on her health. She has issues now that may require surgery, possible gall bladder issues. But I believe it is most likely ulcer or similar due to the stress. It is amazing how the human body will react to distress and start to tell the concious mind, "HEY! Something is wrong"
Thanks again Corri, as I have stated before I do respect you opinion.
F4W
Through honest giving of my love I will recieve 10 fold in return.
Just because a person does not love you in the way you want, does not mean they do not love you!
