F4 Sorry to hear that W did file. I won't reiterate what the others have proposed but I will say this.
It will get worse before it gets better. Your wife asked for your view of the sitch she has put you into. The next time she asks, you need to turn it around instead of answering and ask her what she thinks you would suggest....Since you've already said it, this will get her to think and not put you in the spot of "pushing" her, "controlling" her or "contradicting" her...
Keep up the hard work. She knows she is being the immature one here. You are correct that she needs to recommit to work on it as you can only do your 80%. Hang in there. I'll say the prayer you put on the old thread for you (and my marriage) each day.
Hope this weekend goes well for you.
Oh, and our good times starts and end
Without dollar one to spend.
But how much, baby, do we really need
