I am on a fact finding mission, so please bear with me.
Reminds me of Dragnet! "Just the facts maam"
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Quote: If you got full-custody of your kids, how would you care for them?
Great question. I have spoken with my boss have had my schedule rearranged somewhat and is flexible anyway so I can drop at school and pick up from daycare. I would raise my children no different than I do now, with the exception of helping them cope with the ending of their parents marriage. Corri, for the past several years I have done the bulk of the care of the children and I did so with very little resentment until the last year. So this would not be a change for me. Logistics would be the major change. But I am capable, wife just never asked for help or took it when I offered.
Quote: If your wife did get full custody, do you trust her as a mother to take good care of your kids?
No. I mean that she is not neglectful of abusive. She is just a "Disneyland" mom most of the time. She lets the kids violate boundries and get away with anything they want.
Quote: Why do you balk at an amount of CS that the court would deem fair?
The amount she has requested is 1/2 of my net and they have asked that the judge waive a state recommendation for CS to get this amount.
Quote: How old are your kids?
10, 7, 4
Quote: What are the laws in your state? Are you in a no-fault state? Are you in a state where you have to be legally separated for a certain time before you D is granted?
No fault state, no mandatory separation, 90 day minimum from filing until decree made, community property state, and WAY TO EASY TO DO!
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Through honest giving of my love I will recieve 10 fold in return.
Just because a person does not love you in the way you want, does not mean they do not love you!
