agree with some, disagree, obviously, from my previous post on others.
so stuff I agree with. ILY, giving S P A C E, GAL, not being slef righteous, creative. "yet you tell her "that you're willing to work on the M, but she is not" (essentially blaming her)". agreed. I believe she was working on it. She will again, and actually IS still in it because she is not indifferent and has not WA. The whole las paragraph.
stuff I differ with.
Quote: "you'll continue to support her", yet you continue to disagree with her decision and feelings
supporting her by being loving, kind, not emotionally or verbally abusive, does not mean being a doormat. He doesnt have to agree with her on everything or anything for that matter.
Quote: You state that you do not hate her, yet you also state that you "did not like her right now".
Even if he said he hated her, if it was coming from a place of honesty and truth, it would be much better then smiling at her subserviantly while trying to curry her favor thru more lies such as saying..... you've come to the conclusion that you're the one to blame; that it's all your fault. And that the least you can do is making everything possible so that she can be happy
NO. This is so incongruent and not pysch healthy for either one of them. Nothing good will come from lies.
how impressd you are with her for having the courage to finally file; for being brave enough take action and putting a stop to that unhappy sitch that both of you have had to endure all these years. That even though you will miss the nice times you had together in the past, that you are nontheless "proud" of her actions Sheesh. a couple phrases arent bad but the overall emphasis is on getting a D and that it is a positive thing and something to be proud off? that they were both so incapable of stepping away from their self righteousness long enough to pull together? contradictive imagary and more incongruence.
