Sitch in nutshell:
Me 39
Her 38 (39 in Aug)
Married 12 years (13 next Monday Great huh?)
Kids: S10, S7, S4
Started with me having relationship online (nothing physical) her finding out, her having PA for 2 months me catching her in bed with him. DB and tried to rebuild for 1.5 years, took a long time for me to cope and backslides killed any chance of us putting it back.
She is possible MLC, definite depression, and possible Narcassistic Disorder.
She called to tell me signed the papers today. Wanted me to know before my attorney called.
She wants primary custody and I would get visitaion 2 days a week and every other weekend and $1400.00 a month for CS and possible SS. I may seek full custody but would settle for joint.
So far I am ok. I have prepared myself and put myself in a better spot. I am here to be with others that know what I will be going through.
Through honest giving of my love I will recieve 10 fold in return.
Just because a person does not love you in the way you want, does not mean they do not love you!
