HI MATILDA! I did find out my "ups and downs" were menopausal and now I am popping those hormone pills everyday and I am a new woman !! Went back to the doctor yesterday about the problem I have been having with my arm and shoulder and he was asking how I've been doing on the hormones. Had to tell him I feel younger and acting younger too !! He said that with all the weight loss I was looking younger too so that made me feel great !! Anyway,you are probably having hormone trouble plus you have a lot going on right now and even though it is good things happening you are probably a little stressed getting everything ready. Hope you have a WONDERFUL time and maybe your H will use this time to put things behind him and stop being so absorbed in his misery!! GOOD LUCK...MY BEST TO YOUR SON GRADUATING... HAVE A GREAT VACATION!!!! Let us know all about everything as soon as you can when you get back. Pfroglady