Put me in the group with you all. I have those very same feelings that everyone posted about. That dream of being in love again with H. Instead we seem to have a moody man who appears to be trying sometimes but leaves us feeling unsure.
It does make me feel better to read about others who feel as I do. I am trying to have no expectations but sometimes I feel like we are "stuck".
My thread is over on MLC, also posted one here but my H of 21 yrs had 2 yr affair, it ended and he tried to start with OW#2. For 1 month has said he wants marriage to work. (have tried in past but always with OW too.)
Anyway, I just wonder how long these feelings last. They say this is the hardest part and maybe so. I'd like to hear from someone who is much farther along than us, just for reassurance.
wed2
wed2alien
Both 49, M 23 years 3 teens April 2004- bomb, moved out April 2006-Ended with OW for the LAST time May 2006- He wants to work on the marriage!! Nov 2006-- Moved home May 2008- Things still getting better
