quote:Originally posted by matilda: Poor guy can't win for losing. What goes through my mind now is that he doesn't desire me as much as he once did…
Maybe he does, Mattie. I know from my own experience that with the turmoil I’ve gone through with my sit, I just don’t know how to act anymore. Think your H may be in the same boat?
Seems like your ensuing conversation would indicate that he is.
Maybe he is scared. You say you’re getting nit-picky. Always on the lookout for babysteps. He’s picking up on these vibes, Mattie. And, he’s following your lead.
This is leading to a lot of mixed signals – in both directions.
I guess maybe it’s time for you to be a little less intense. Live in the moment, and when you start to analyze… think about it tomorrow.
I guess what you’re shooting for right now is to feel at ease. And for that easy feeling to be natural. Like it used to be.
It won’t feel natural when you’re trying sooooooooooooo hard for it to happen.
