yikes! it isn't right he is pushing and pulling you that way.I stopped (arghh!!!!!) expecting to have sex with my H anymore because I don't want pity sex, I used to iniciate but after an argument he said he still didnt' feel much for me. My point is that maybe you should think about your physical relationship with him, we (women) read sex as love, obviously your H (and mine for that matter) dont' think so.
Is MC an option? I see so many things in your H that my H went through (and some that he still is) the confusion, the depression. He need a therapist and you need a C you can talk to regularly. A plan of action is needed, he isn't really realizing how much his behavior is affecting you, he prob thinks all should be fine w/you since he is giving you sex and sustaining the kids.
Good luck)))) don't let him push you around.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
