I remember when I first visited one of your threads. Baby, you’ve come a long way!
I think your two-fold “blockbuster” will serve you well. Seems like you’ve been trying to “get over it” for awhile, and there’s nothing you can actively do to facilitate that. Like pfroglady says:
quote:Originally posted by pfroglady: Anyway,the thoughts will probably come and go throughout the years but they can't hurt me unless I allow them to.
So, you just shelf the bad thoughts, change the moment, live in the moment, and voila! Another bad moment has passed. And after a time, the memory of the bad moment fades into the past.
