in a way your H is right only he didn't put it very well. maybe he isn't willing to say he wants to work on things...yet.
quote: He also said that we can't work on stuff if I'm out of the house. What the HELL is he telling me?????
this could be a round about way of telling you he wants to work on things.
quote: Then when I think he's being open and willing to try again he makes sure he puts me in my place.
i'm not asking for the email, but it seems that there was conversation or writing that sparked off this discussion. he didn't just write this all out of the blue, did he?
how have YOU been acting since you got home. are you still DBing?
