Thanks Carol and Mom of two. h and I talked a little today after he got home and he said that he had noticed that stuff I used to get mad about, I don't anymore but then 1/2 hour later he said again that he doesn't think people really change and I said that maybe he didn't want to really admit that he sees the changes because it would be easier for him to call it quits if there is no change in me and I was going along like I always was- volatile, reactive, nonsupportive, moody. those things are gone. He had no comment to that. Carol, my goal is for H to say he loves ME again. You're lucky and I'm happy for you. Lisa
