Mom of two, well I thought H asked me home to try and work on 'us" again but apparently it was to reunite me with my sons and to get me back in my own house. And just because "he has problems doesn't mean everyone else has to suffer".I sent him an email this morning telling him about the changes I've made for myself and the marriage and that I had my own expectations for the reconciliation. and that he must realize I'm serious because he decided to give us another chance. i think the word "reconciliation" and that I said he was giving us another chance freaked him out. He wrote back and said that everything is not peachy-keen and he hasn't decided to give us another chance but besides the things between us that need to change, things like a cleaner house and our oldest son having more respect for his dad were what we need to work on. he says I need to be home if we're going to work these things out. any comments? thanks, Lisa
