Hi MikeG;

Thank you for responding to my inquiry. I realize this is a VERY long process, and I'm learning as I go. My H left about 4 months ago.

The actual 'return home' conversation always made me wonder more than anything! I also understand that it has to come from him, since he is the one who left us. I've learned patience, and now I understand the dynamics of it all.

Thank you for the encouraging words - and I've finally got a handle on the 'letting go' principle...only wish I had known that right after he left. It would have spared me a lot of suffering, and him digging his heels in deeper.

But, now I am stronger, and ready for the long bumpy ride. To hear stories like yours means more to me than you could imagine! This is all so unbelieveable, so hearing positive end results is encouraging on days when things don't look so good.

Thanks again, and I wish you all the best!
MomOfTwo [Smile]