HEY MOT, i'm back, as i was saying my responses had to be very measured.the message you have to convey is kinda like a juggling act. i have to let you know that i care and am open to being back together but i am going on with my life right now even as we speak. you can go in the archives and look at some of my post from last year. dec 29, 2001 should give you a lot of the information your looking for. You can get through this people like myself are proof. mike g