You probably would have found an article that I read interesting. Can't remember what magazine it was in, maybe "Cosmopoliton". It was a few months back. The author was a psychologist by the name of Laura Corn.
She had low sexual desire all her life it didn't particularly bother her. Because of her occupation, she was well aware of what problems this could cause, but not sure of what to do about it. She had pretty much just decided to live with it, but felt really sorry for her longtime, Live-in BF.
She decided that it had been quite a while, so she decided to make love to him every day for a week. She thought she was just doing this for him, but found that the more sex she had, the more she wanted. So...she wrote a book.
But having said that, the book is not about her experiences. Maybe the preface, but the rest is fun and games for the sexually enlightened. Probably something that would scare the sh** out of your W if you left it around.
I was looking at Amazon.com and I must say, it did look interesting. I'd have to use it as a doorstop right now though. Oh well...
I still think you should try really hard to get "The Five Love Languages" if at all possible.
I'm in such a totally awesome mood today! Wish I could send some of that PMA your way!