Since H got back, he is still confused, still wants to be with the OO, doesn't want to lose me. Tells me that he doesn't want a life with the OO if it means losing me (like he could have both?!) but I'm certain that the OO is hearing something entirely different.
I need some advice about this holiday weekend. My birthday is on the 5th. This holiday and my birthday have always been a long weekend for both of us. We go to the patriotic concerts, out for fireworks, BBQ for my birthday and whatnot. It's always been big because the whole country is celebrating.
When H got back from Florida, I told him essentially that I am moving on with the process of my life, but that the door is open behind me. Once he decides to break it off with the OO, he can catch up with me if it's not too late. But, I've been pretty strict about there being no "relationship" with me while he is still seeing the OO.
Now he wants to take me to the concert for my birthday. I don't know what to do. I would really like to spend my birthday with him, doing the things that we always do. But, he's still seeing the OO. And, he was in Florida on his birthday and I want a little bit of payback. But, if we never have any fun together, then why on earth would he come back to me? But, I told him either me or the OO ... not both at the same time.
Don't know what to do ... anyone still out there on this long weekend?
