Funny how the old themes keep recurring and each time they rear their heads we find we have learned a little more.
You and I had a conversation about the role self-improvement plays in keeping solution focused back on January 17th on my old thread Menopause and MLC .
I went back and re-read that portion of the thread. At that time, I was trying to clarify the distinction between being controlling and exercising influence.
We must constantly attempt to always improve ourselves but we must not lose sight of our ultimate goal--that of reuniting and rebuilding our marriage.
