I've been trying to figure out why I didn't even get her a single rose (like Duchess said), and you've expressed it exactly.
I used to do the single rose thing a lot. It became meaningless, and even worse, a symbol of not honouring her wishes. That's why I stuck with the card.
The fact that I need to ride with someone isn't a good thing. Right now, the only person I know that I could ride with si W. She's told me that I have to find someone else. It's as simple as that.
But, I'm still hopeful that we can get away sometimes. The motorcycle trip is out of the question, though.