Sounds like things are just there right now Andy. My experience with all the gift giving is to honour what they say. Even though deep down the would like gifts, actually not receiving them sends a message.
1 - I am respecting your wishes

Again I have found that with gift thing that asking isn't near as good as well thought out surprises.
What do you think of a motorcycle trip? A night at a B&B which is a good drive away. Membership i nthe Hells Angels? [Razz]

Hey needing her to take you riding may not be a bad thing!