Hey Andy - wonder what would happen if Andy didn't make the coffee one morning but instead brought a nice cold glass or orange juice or something like it with a little flower or goofy thing she likes. Or maybe Andy dresses up like a gorrilla or Marilyn Monroe when he bring the coffee to the groggy wife. Without any expectations.
I'm not kidding.
I've pretty much let my dreams die. They got in the way of my reality. And you know what? It's not what I wanted or hoped for - but It's getting to be pretty good anyway. Who knows? It may be better than what I was dreaming about after all.