Your idea about the chair/timer for my S4 is great. I'm a little embarassed as I have a MA degree in Marriage, Family, Child Counseling - LOL I guess it's easier said than done. But I will try it!
I got a call this morning at 7:30am from H telling me "you have an email". He responded to my email about some charges that showed up on "our" account. One of them was a winetasting thing, the other a dessert place. I jumped to the conclusion that it was w/ Ow and told him I didn't appreciate it.
His email said "What the hell?" and he asked my why I was jumping down his throat, etc. I told him - and I'm not sure this was good DB'ing - that I was aware of today's date (the date they met last year) and that I was extra sensitive. I told him it isn't about anger, it's about sadness and loss and not wanting to see anything related to "her". I then mentioned that I was very sad to hear about the Crocodile Hunter's death - we used to watch that show together all of the time. I guess I just wish he would remember some of our good times!
Oh well. He will be over tonight and I will finally get a break after 2 weeks! I need it (and so does my S4)
I found a divorce atty I'm going to make an informational appt with. I need the facts on my rights. Thurs is the bankruptcy appt.
Anyway, thanks again for your support - it is soooo helpful.
Btw, where can i find your thread?
Monica
My sitch: Me 40 H 30 M 8 yrs 1 S5.5 Bomb Oct 2005 Sep Nov 2005 H w/ Ow I filed for LS June 2007 H responded w/ D 2007 I have sole P custody, joint L Just need to take care of Final Judgement papers
I guess it's easier said than done. But I will try it!
