Well I didn't see any light for about a year and a half...I mean it was so gloomy at times that I actually filed for divorce twice....came within 3 days of finalizing it the first time when I panicked and called it off... I really couldn't see how he could come back...he gave me absolutely no hope... I have to admit at the time I didn't know for sure but shortly after he left his affair with OW ended....I was sure so many times that he was out just living it up with any woman, all women, one woman....but he says not and I tend to believe him (he is having such ED problems that it is believeable to me that he wouldn't have risked that embarassment)... Anyway
Quote: I ask you not to loose hope, but at the same time to find your inner strenght and be ready for anything, only time will tell.
this is great advice....I would spend some time thinking about it...after all your H has been gone only about a year....mine is just now coming back and in a few days will mark the horrible 2 yr. anniversary....(but also my nieces 2 year wedding anniversary the bright side of that horrible day)....
Just keep going....work on you...trust in you....and give yourself lots of time...
