How do I behave around my cheating husband?

[S.T. _I Made It!]

I will say some prayers too. My H told me (well, he couldn't hardly say it, I had to say it for him basically) that he wanted a divorce (that was about 3-4 months ago) and that he couldn't do "this" anymore and that if things changed we'd be fake, and if I wasn't such the nice person that I was (even though I wasn't the wife I needed to be, the wife God intended me to be) he would have left me a long time ago.

Ya, it really hurts to think, your sticking through it through sickness and health, but they can't- they are weak minded and are only thinking in the flesh.

I do believe that God has a plan for me, and He has a plan for you. I don't know if my H will be with me forever, I still have my doubts, but he has said that he wants me to be his wife. He said he had found my forum on here and read it and was amazed at how much I was working on our marriage. I never knew this at the time, he still was acting like he didn't want to be with me, but he had a lot on his mind.

I believe that God had the most to do with what has happened in my life. I believe he allowed this horrible thing to happen so that I might grow to become the person he wanted me to be. I would never be where I am now, if this hadn't happened to me. The struggles we go thru only make us stronger, as long as we learn from them and put the past behind us and focus on the now.

I do encourage you to keep your strength, your dignity, your sanity, your faith and everything else you need to get through. God has a purpose for your life. Also, we really need to pray for your H. He is very lost right now.

These are things my good christian friends told me to pray for.

1. Pray that your H and the OW are distracted from each other.
2. Pray that your H is surrounded by christian people and christian influence.
3. Pray for salvation for both your H and OW.
4. Pray that your H is absolutely miserable in his life now. (a counselor told me it took him to be at rock bottom before he searched out God).
5. Pray for yourself and for your children always.

I truely feel your pain, and I am so sorry that you had to endure it so long and are continuing to endure it.

I hope I've helped, and not hindered.
God bless you. We can do all things thru Christ who stregthens us. (forgot what verse- oops!)
Crissy