I am sorry for you sadness....I do know that point because I also reached it at one point....just keep your focus on your S and you....things will work out....I don't want to give false hope as you don't need that but we never really know what is around the next corner....
You might give H a heads up on the bankruptcy...I believe it would be more cost effective to file jointly...
Also, not sure where you live but I filed my own divorce and since I couldn't afford it I asked for and received a fee waver from the court.....meaning I didn't have to pay for my divorce to be filed....
We have a Family Court office where you can go in and for free someone will help you file your papers, work out your agreements, and even set up support....
I didn't spend a dime on my legal seperation or on my divorce filings....I also know the fee waver can apply to bankruptcy too so you might ask your attorney if he would be willing to fill out the paper work but let you do the filing....this could save you a lot of money....here divorce is over $300 to file and I think bankruptcy is too.....so this could save you over $600...
Keep posting....keep talking....let us know how things go
Again, I am sorry you have reached this point but I still feel that things will work out....either way
I just looked at your profile and saw that you are in California....go to your local court house....they should have a Family Court division there....I am in San Diego County....like I said they can help you do the divorce yourself!
