I also would caution watching the funds.... My H said he would take care of his family....support stopped after 5 months....then a few times he actually deposited money into OUR account but withdrew MORE....and a few times he over drew OUR account...I soon realized that he was off his rocker and canceled his ATM card...I still have the account but don't put money in them....he quit using it because it was too much trouble to go inside... He had his reasons (excuses) but I had to protect myself... now he is back and 120K in debt....good thing I had the good sense to cancel and close any joint credit card accounts....but only after I allowed 16K in debt to end up on me....my hard learned lesson... The man you trust isn't really there....he acts like him sometimes....but that is only to get what he needs...you will know when he is REALLY back...till then be careful!!!